Friday, June 1, 2007

As We Go Through the Month

This month Promises ALL we wish for ourselves. Only you can decide to change your status quo.
It is however imperative for long term success that we eliminate SHYNESS fast.

I called my partner Moni Arora, and i told him ALL of your problems, he offered the following as the best solution you can ever get.

Please take action on this now as it could only be your opportunity.

Wish you ALL the best!

Wednesday, May 30, 2007

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How to Get Over With Shyness

An extrovert is normally considered as confident. People who hold this believe should not be blamed, after all extroverts share good amount of time with other people, seen at public places and even liked to be noticed. All these culminate into thinking that he’s so self confident. There are lots of extroverts that I know that are not as confident as I am.

Shyness can be regarded as a state of apprehension or feeling of lack of self confidence you most likely experience in association with social interaction with others. You’re shy when you fear approaching and being approached by others. This report does not intend to cover shyness as a field of study – its aim is apt – offer you extraordinary tips, hints and techniques on how best you can get over with shyness. Shyness should not becloud you all your lives. When will you do like I did? I was practically shy before now. When will you say goodbye to those frightening moments in your life – causing you unnecessary anxiety and apprehension.

Shyness in most cases is a bad disease. It has to be squarely dealt with. Think about all the lost opportunities – opportunities for networking, meeting a new person, wooing that super girl – what attract girls is self confidence. Below is a run down of how you can easily get over with shyness.

• If you like to stay indoors always, its time to get some new friends, change your mindset as regards meeting new people for woe is unto him who has not an helper when he falls.
• You’ve got to cultivate the habit of smiling always – it’s to your own advantage. It makes you happy and healthier; in fact your life expectancy is prolonged when you have more happy cells. When you smile to people, some will definitely return it, others will say some commendatory soothing words which all add up to build your self worth – a feeling that you’re wanted, that you belong. So why not get out there and smile. Do not be a jackal either.
• Read and learn about different topics, about events, places, music, environment, weather, films, just about any interesting topic. This is important so you can produce suitable conversational topic. When you do this, you increase your chances to flow, you’re no longer shy abut your ability to keep a conversation going.
• Learn to assume a relaxed posture, position wherever you are.
• Its time to take care of your image. Whether you want it or not, people would scrutinize your looks. You’ll need to get a personality for yourself. To be frank, you can decide to standby, learn and improve your self-image, or completely be a shadow of someone else. Many people shy away because they are so conscious of their appearance. These steps will help on how to enhance your image and build the must have self confidence.
• 1. Feel good about yourself. Positive thinking is a good enhancer of personality. Nothing compares to an aura of self contentment and serenity. Shyness is developed by negative thoughts that others are far better than you. Stop that nonsense and start appreciating yourself. Look at the mirror every morning and say to yourself “You are a beautiful creation of God!”

2. Positive image starts in you. A good character is admirable and gives you credibility. Live harmoniously and be at peace with everyone. How can you project a positive image if your real life doesn’t say so? You can really feel shameful if you have criminal records. The real idea of an enhanced image is brought about by living decently.

3. Appearance. Good looking and fashionable people are the ones who get more attention from the audience. Being shy can also be a product of not so being confident on how you look in front of people. To enhance your image, you may want to consider these points relative to your appearance:

• Clean body that comes with clothes. Be sure that you are clean from head to toe. Hygiene and proper grooming
are important aspects in image enhancement. Putting on that clean apparel from top to bottom can give you an edge in any occasions. Making sure that your body and what you’re wearing are neat will help you feel secure about yourself and your appearance.

• Proper color coordination. Be careful on what you wear as
this can be a mirror of your personality. Combination of colors should be perfect. Neck ties should be matched with your inner shirt; belts and shoes should have the same color.

• Put on the right make up. Woman should always be conscious about her make up. Any color will do for fair skinned while light shades of purple and pink goes with dark skinned women. Choosing the right lipstick should also be a priority.

• Clean cut hair. You wouldn’t want to look like a rock star over a corporate meeting. Make sure that your hair is well trimmed and that it doesn’t cover your face.

4. Gaining a positive image will also be incorporated in your movements and ease in front of a crowd. You should develop eye contact and facial expressions appropriate to certain circumstances. Smiling is one sure way of gaining some people’s trust. This can also involve the proper actuations in a social gathering. Etiquette is necessary to develop your presence in any events.

5. Seek the help of a professional image enhancer. There are also certain books which will help you with the information on how to develop your image and do away with
shyness. You can invest on these things to make sure that
you are properly guided.

Enhancing your image is one good way of overcoming your shyness. It can boost your self confidence knowing that you appear respectable and neat in front of anyone. Positive image can spell success thus it should always be cultivated.

I believe these tips are worth trying out and I hope it helps you in your quest to get over with shyness